Like humans, pets usually need time to adjust and settle into their new living environment. It’s normal to want everything It’s important to remember that while your home is safe and familiar to you, everything about it – the sounds, smells, people, and other pets are all completely new, and that can be stressful and a little scary.
While individual pets will adjust at their own pace, a good rule of thumb to follow is the 3-3-3 Rule of Adopting: 3 days to decompress; 3 weeks to learn routine; 3 months to feel at home.
The amount of time each pet needs to adjust to their new home will vary, but the 3-3-3 rule helps approximate what new pet owners can expect.
In the first 3 days
Your new pet will often be overwhelmed with their new surroundings in the first few days. Their uncertainty may manifest as a lack of appetite, or undesirable behaviour, such as barking, which is common when pets are stressed. Your new pet may also hide somewhere that makes them feel safe, like under furniture or in their crate. Some pets may do the opposite and test boundaries in their new environment to see what they can get away with — this is why it’s good to pet-proof your home first.
Tips to remember during this period:
- Give them space.
- Stay calm and give clear directions.
- Start routines right away.
- Do not force interaction.
- Be patient and positive.
After 3 weeks
Your new pet is starting to settle in and is getting used to your routine, which helps them feel more comfortable with their environment. This period is when your new pet’s personality will start to show. Behaviour issues may arise, so positive reinforcement training is especially critical to set expectations and boundaries.
Tips to remember during this period:
- Your pet feels more settled and will start to test boundaries.
- Consistently work on basic commands.
- Give clear directions.
- praise and reward behaviours you want to reinforce.
After 3 months
Your pet should be completely acclimated to and comfortable in your home. You have built trust and a bond with your pet, which gives them confidence and a sense of security with you. They know their routine and may expect meals and enrichment at specific times.
Tips to remember during this period:
- Your pet has established trust with you and knows their routine.
- Continue with consistent and clear positive reinforcement training.
- Once bonded, you can also use affection as a reward, but treats (in moderation) are still a great form of enrichment.
Ultimately, adopting a new pet takes time, patience, consistency, and time. The 3-3-3 rule helps remind new pet owners that their recently adopted friend has been through a lot of change, and some may need extra patience and time to adjust.